No matter what you try to tell yourself. He started talking to a 22 year old in South Dakota through Skype. So much that your wife has taken full advantage of just how sweet, loving, forgiving and kind you are. I cry even in my sleep, have nightmares. If i dont answer her call, she shows up at my door. Now he is really angry n says to end up our relation and rather be friends. It makes me feel special. All I do now is feel so alone and sad. I firmly believe that a person cannot love another person when they dont love themself. I really felt i was losing him and I think thats what led me to meet up with the other man last year. About a year and a half later they started talking again on Facebook. Im giving up on trying!? 3. We went on a summer vacation with her parents this year and she said she was really impressed with how I was around her parents and I was different in a good way, so that was a step forward. Vicky, jealousy comes from a person feeling insecure inside himself. And that we wanted to be in love with each other again. So now I am in touch with the one but have interactions with my husband as he still sees the children frequently (they are quite young). For the first 5 years , we were great. Do you have any advice? I am concerned. Hi Jessica We live in the south & his mother/my mother are very submissive women. I am 26 and he is 28 years old. My boyfriend was perfect. Forget him. She said not long ago I do love and I do miss you but its hard for me to be with you right now she said she wants to be friends and before I said I dont think I can and this was before I we had started our initial break. Otherwise you have to wait.I could not even answer this. Were both very honest with each other, I know he loves me, Ive never questioned that. I literally do anything and everything for this man but he would not lay with me. Long-Term Relationships: Rebuilding Love After Emotional Damage. That was the worst 2 weeks of my life. I have been in a relationship with my husband for almost 8 years and almost 6 years of being married. He says that I dont do anything for his to trust me, what am I suppose to do? What do you think? He asked why now? As much as I love her, shes making me sick. Hed find a new girl that would worship him in a sense.offer her home, car, money. You know, since time in eternity, multiple partners have not worked because it arouses jealousy. Two days after that, he started calling me. It all started when she was barely letting me see my son then she would tell me I have to give her half my paychecks or will go to court. Their messages are private. I have been totally working on myself also inside and out. She swore to me that she wasnt leaving me before we moved. He did all of this and I still found things to fear in our relationship but nothing because he gave me a reason to fear it. You need to understand your feelings so that you can both honor them (ie, not sweep them under the rug) and deal with them in a healthy way. He lied about his true feelings up until we argued In July when I said it was over. Brogaard, B. At this point I do not know what to do. He told me weve had great moments and maybe wed still have more in the future, that maybe the flame of passion would ignite again We slept together and it was wonderful, amazing as it always is. Our one issue was a difference in sex drives. I have many but none are for any man who has been in my life. But her treatment of me stuck caused me to need about 24hrs away. However, that wasnt the case. The act of letting go is simply the act of moving forward without the person you loved. What concerns me right now is the fact that it had been three weeks since I spoke to her and her anger and rage only seems to be growing and she said that shes okay with it even though she knows that it may be unhealthy to be holding on to it. She wants to know she can have fun with you especially if she is hard working woman during the day. I had done him a favor by printing some flyers for him so I told him that he owed me. I get that keeping this last guy from him has only hurt us more. I am so unhappy with my marriage and in the plans of leaving once I return from a job. She left me for a month and then came back, admitted she had been with someone else, and I didnt care. Its Maria Dr. Deb and I answered your question about how could he have GROWN TO NOT LIKE ME? I worry that its too little too late. I would suggest you have a good look inside yourself and ask yourself what, exactly, you are looking for in this relationship. I have been away from drugs for a few years now and over the last 6 months have tyred to talk with more about what went on and that this person being me that was under the influence made mistakes I live with to this day. Mind you he still lives in his car, he knows absolutely no one, and has no family close by. You put sex or career over love. Get the help you need from a therapist near youa FREE service from Psychology Today. You have to take care of yourself, even if it means breaking your own heart. This I learned mid July. Was he just no longer interested in the marriage? I am wondering if it is wise to let him know now of my past experience while we are having our time apart. For me, that was the fundamental basis of our relationship. I believe thats because somewhere deep down she knows the guy isnt a good character but shes too busy filling the voids I left her with to want to leave him. Also read my article on the 36 Questions. He didnt know what his problem was, he didnt like the fact of him cheating on me, and he didnt want to lose me. We had been together 9 months and things werent always perfect but I was so in love with him. I just dont have it in me to cheat on him though because I cant bring myself to cause him that pain. It should make us more sympathetic to the plight of others. I find myself constantly looking at other men, and acknowledge them when they look at me and have considered just taking the leap and giving into my desires. Along with random dirty videos from I dont know who and of course pics. I came off them a month ago and now can see things far better. Men respond well to unconditional respect. We recently just moved across the country together. Anyway, my boyfriend found out but I lied and it was very obvious. He wants to be with me but he thinks he will cheat on me again and again. It should had never happened and I did not tell her about it because I was too scared to loose her and I was scared I was gonna hurt and betray our trust. Thank u for the advice . Please help me to carry on and get through this. I do not feel appreciated and basically he feels entitled to this because he is the sole provider.Intimacy has become a chore for me as my desire has not been for him for a long time. Please help. for me to wake up, for me to finally have a thing I could point to without being told I was crazy or making mountains out of molehills. At. This is so unlike him. Research shows that mindfulness meditation is better than medication (long term) for trauma such as PTSD. Understand that it's natural to still love your ex. I have since learned that I have abandonment ptsd and it manifested in ways that ultimately destroyed our relationship. My parents loved him and had no problem with us living in their house while we set up our lives together. Really listen and comment to her on what she is getting at. One night he asked me to install Skype so that he could see me He told me he misses me even though we are not in a relationship, he keeps repeating how beautiful I am We ended up doing virtual sex I know maybe this is controversial but I feel good in having this strong connection with him and I like to know that he feels attracted to me and not to anyone else. I just dont understand her anymore. i left him for a year, during that year he became more responsable got a better job that he was motivated about and he was giving the kids a real dad. Hes an insecure person (he always accused me of cheating on him and having crushes on other men, which I NEVER did) but I believed that he could overcome it one day. I didnt know how to handle all the tough times with him losing his job and being lazy and depressed so I nagged at him which created more arguing. To the point where I almost just said that I had cheated when I didnt. I guess it was normal for me having grown up with my father constantly abusing my mother. E. How can any person make another one have that feeling anyway? Im not trying to make an excuse for his actions but I know that may have played a role in all of this. My fianc and I have been together for a year and a half. Let me ask you: Do you know what he cares about? I told him at the beginning that I didnt want to sleep with the whole town, that I want to be exclusive with one guy. I love him so much and he is my king. I dont know what to do but I need advice I cant move on cause my heart belongs to her. And, in return, I treated him like he was worthless. Is it too much business as usual without any romance, any fun time? 1. You got hurt and betrayed. How can I get him to trust me and show him that Im not going to hurt him. She has said she now feels supported by me, which is different than before, but still no passion or intimacy. You share interests, get . since january he started acting strange and then he said his foot his not in this relationship anymore. Advice: Dont worry so much about what he says to you. https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/domestic-violence. She was heavily pregnant and due in a week.I wish I had a car to pick her up. This is HER way and her problem. How do we both stop the non sense??? But do I stay or do I go? She never had this personalities before. Is my husband going to marry this co worker and their going to b live happily ever after. I asked to see his text messages he sends to her and he said no. Any fool can fight back. If she still wont trust you, then you can go to couples counseling to re-build trust. This hurt him so much, id never seen him act this way. Feel so lost. I feel like Im really losing him if he doesnt feel as crazy for me like he did before. And that she wanted to leave him for me. He hugged me when he left to go out of town. There was one friend that I always wasnt comfortable with. Good luck, youve nothing to lose, but everything to gain. If I truly begin to love myself and become a caring and devoted man to her, and tell her again how sorry I am about the way I carelessly handled our love? I dont know What to do what worse is that we still are married & live together!!! She got mad and asked me why I would do that and dont we both deserve to be happy if things cant be fixed. I still get very emotional jut thinking back to my most vulnerable states and how alone I was. It takes too much work for someone to bear alone and do it with their own willpower. He is an extremely damaged person. I was never physically abusive but I was very emotionally and mentally abusive towards me ex. I feel hurt, angry, resentful, disgusted, sad, depressed. self wasnt with her, I felt bad for her cos im so she said I LOVE YOU, BUT I JUST DONT TRUST YOU. Before I lose him. My question is. Next, you need to learn good coping mechanisms when bad feelings come up. Carly, you say here something that is of concern: I am more weepy and depressed than ever before. Therefore, it would be natural for him to be skeptical of your changes if you havent done this (you dont indicate what you did to work through them). I love him more than anything and hes the love of my life. What do you think I should do? We hit it off instantly. He still wants to be with me, he still says hes in love with me, but he just cant go back to normal immediately. But when we got into a fight, out of nowhere I told him that I lied to him. She is at her mums at the moment and said we need space and will come back Tuesday to talk but the impression I get is that it is to sort out the practicalities of next steps not to work things through. I still feel hurt and betrayed by my ex and sometimes i still cry about it or feel down about it. It was as if my discovery & his responding attack of his hatred for me had never occurred. Im still hurt, though we are moving on, and I have no plans on leaving him. Depression I put her threw. You dont know who he REALLY is; you dont know what it would be like to live with him. Sexual intimacy all but waned & emotional connection had stopped many years prior. Before you can explain it to your boyfriend, you need to explain it to yourself. So I was dating a man I met online, for a year it was long distance. I left him and he kept contacting me but I wanted nothing to do with someone who only looked at me as a way to get sex and be so insensitive to disrespect me and cheat on me. My question is should I try to move on without her or do I continue to try and make things right? Im doing this because I dont live like this anymore. She said right away that shes living. Then reality sets in and the long-haul TRUE love should kick in. Is he happy? What If the one who falls in love realizes after marriage that who they fell in love with is not real, aka, a passive aggressive narcissist? Help! Thank u. He said he loves her and they tell each other that every day. I will spend my life missing him and in regret. He is trying hard to make time but the business doesnt give him a break. I dont know wether to keep fighting or give up..cuz it hurts and I want it to stop. In which he barely worked anyways.. I dont want to keep hurting him. I was like I need to see the progress since I paid for repairs and fixing. That is part one (how your partner makes you feel). I know he was my soulmate, I would have forgiven him anything and fought to keep him in my life whatever he said or did to reject or hurt me. It was a disaster. I do not love my husband. Now after 28 years of marriage he works with someone that he finds attractive. Some are really painful. Interestingly, the Eastern culture from which the mindfulness meditation comes was big on compassion, so that skill will be excellent for your marriage as well as the trauma. So then I just came right out and asked him if he still loved me like he used he said no. We became the best of friends, but also sexual partners. Originally we decided to be completely monogamous, and we have been since that decision. Two months later right before we moved he told me he had found a girlfriend there and didnt love me. please help me with this asap. He would flirt with other women in front of me and constantly made sexual comments about other women both to me and in front of me. Its urgent. I sent her flowers today to try and start the romantic spark again. Everything I did I really do deeply regret. Or you want to take action, but also remain passive. It could be that they're already married, or that their parents hate us a la Romeo and Juliet, or it could be because they simply don't feel the same way about us. Im having a very hard time to deal with the distance, on one hand i want to give her some space, and rebuild our relationship slowly, but on the other hand i miss her all the time and i have a hard time staying back. The second time he said something was missing, there was no chemistry and that someone from work was in his mind, a girl he liked prior to knowing me. And then later on in the day he kissed me two more times. Hes a very lost little boy even though hes 42 hes very lost and Im hoping he can be found that he can find himself. Thanks! I had stayed faithful since that mistake and did all I could to build trust and be as opened as possible. Until this past July. I am going exactly through the same situation and feel so lost and confused. Have there been arguments? If you dont give me money anymore, someone else will..bla bla bla, This is the lady i took care of even before she got pregnant for someone and i continued doing so till her baby almost 2yrs old. he is to the point where he would get divorced. Although your post is long, I feel like there is stuff missing from it. But he made the last one GF. But after hurting him so much and leaving him in so much despair, he now is numb and lazy to hang onto this relationship anymore :( im really depressed about it and idk how to win him back. Do you charge for skype treatment? He always changes for a couple of weeks then goes back, in the pass he has cheated. I gave him my number after his request. In January of the following year stupidly I told my stepsons ex-girlfriend that I used to have a crush on her. How csn I win her trust back? But I speak in my email using terms like my partner, I dont say her etc., I basically say that I want a partner that I could have told her what the issue was and we come to an agreement that works for both of us. My BF will not leave unless i get a restarining order on him and the police tell him he has to leave. bring her to meet ur parents. How do I get him to see that we are repairable? It . I knew that I loved my wife. Soon after that, she broke down, genuinely apologized and begged for forgiveness. During our time I have had a rough time dealing with his mom and his ex wife. Be patient with yourself when you're mourning the death of your loved one. We have two beautiful children. Even though you didnt actually cheat with this male friend, what you did sounds like spite and that is not healthy for a marriage. Oh well. The thought of sex with anyone but him is not an option for me. A couple months ago I told him that I wanted to, but he freaked out and I stayed. My mother in law showed how selfish she is since day one making a huge drama about everything. If your therapist is not able to move from couples therapy to individual with you to help you with how you have cut off your feelings, that is a problem. I truly do not believe they have anything going on, and that my husband is just so hurt and obviously still angry with me, even though he says he has forgiven me. We also had dinner with his sisters and her(the same one he wrote) and I didnt even know she was an ex. And through out the summer I felt our communication was extremely poor and at times felt like he was ignoring me and didnt really care for me. My boyfriend and I started dating 2 years ago. except now I feel like he has betrayed me again in the way that he made a promise to me about going on a trip with me for my birthday then right out from underneath me he tells me oh by the way I cant come with you because Im going with my friend on a trip instead like he never wanted to go with just promised me that for no reason. We separated and i moved out. It means hes already around the corner waiting for u to get money and come out. I am in agony. Me and my girlfriend of four years recently/still are going through a rough patch. She name them like her baby needs stuff. Everything was good. Youre asking a good question. I see her on Saturday night and she holds me and says I feel great to her, but she seems distant. 15: Let her choose the activity instead Hi. Hes trying to please himself and her. The process is very well described in detail :) the interesting thing is falling in love again takes inputs from both persons and if the other person is not willing to be genuine and do their part to make up for the betrayal then it leaves one with suffering alternating with numbness which eventually overtakes (ie. Love is the only thing that is Real. What should I do? It has been two months and I am depressed. Also the American Association for Marriage & Family Therapy (aamft.org) has information. He had a rough upbringing and there was no solid male figure in his life to teach him how to really love. And know, there is a time to speak and a time to stay silent. I have 2 kids under the age of 5 and he was not ready to be a stepfather, so i stop myself from liking him more than i should. That is because the emotional part of the relationship is missing. Hi, the first 2 months of my relationship with my bf, i like him a lot because he know how to treat a woman, and he is very blunt and direct with what he want and how he feel. It had been over for 3 years. Many people develop mental health issues because they can't process these feelings. I used to abuse my bfs emotions so bad. Once he calmed down I was finally able to tell him why I sent that text. This is the most important question of all. eventually, I came to my senses and told her how I felt. So my question is thisI understand that you say it takes time to heal from the hurts of the past and the pain I caused him. What you need to do: 1. leave or divorce making sure your legal and financial rights are preserved; 2. rebuild your self-esteem, understanding how you were able to keep tolerating abuse for so long so that it will never happen again; 3. set your sights on a bright future based on a truth-based assessment of others and your relation to them. finally 1 month before our 9th year anniversary i had enough after him coming home wasted and getting aggresive with me. for me my ex never mattered. Or am I just too stupid to see that he is playing me and toying with my emotions? Im hoping that sometime in the future he is able to forgive me and give me another chance. The next day we returned her step-fathers car, dropping it off at her place. A person in emotional turmoil is not who he really IS. He has never been married and had no kids. Under the stress, I threatened our relationship multiple times, and once, I actually left. The friendship thing did not work after he got married. For an inexpensive solution, perhaps you would like to read my book which is available on Amazon The Healing Is Mutual. Things turn suddenly drastically becos his wife learn about matters of us though we never commit any offence. Come here and we can marry and have children. I cant reach him. He said she listens to him when he talks. Sign up and Get Listed. I feel like we havent been able to communicate well.I am disappointed he still cannot talk with me about what led to his intimate actions with other women so we can learn how to deal with stressors, etc. It is not GOOD, but it is normal. please help me what should I do. since january we are still living in the same house as we co own. As for both of us going, she has to want to go, and she is scared to death of dealing with her parents divorce. Our relationship have always been, very mellow, we give each other our freedom and space. Ankita Everything is my fault and he is through done with us. But my heart is broken and doesnt understand why we have to be apart to do this. So i hit him up. Finally, I realized that it wasnt the fact that I was a mean drunk, it was the fact that we had no time apart, that i was selfish when it came to him going out with his friends, that i was suffocating him, and he didnt realize it until i said itthat he wanted some alone time and that was the real reason we broke up. I am sure readers of this blog may be tired of hearing me say therapy so much, but Ill say it again: I would like to recommend couples therapy. My husband handed her the keys & walked away. He kept saying that I have finally pushed him over the edge so talked to another woman to protect him. Since the problem is not one girl in particular. He gave me the letters i wrote back, said he will come around our son when he is a better role model and that he doesnt exist to me or my family and never to contact him again. Do I just need more time? It might also be worth it to talk to him. Both assets are necessary. In plain English, this means your ability to exercise logic and reason is switched pretty far off when you're in love with someone, but if you hate them, you can exercise better. The more we try to deny them, the more they try to muscle their way in. I realized I was being abusive and selfish in the relationship and I wanted to be a better person for her. Him not being sure had really upset me because I had been having a really bad day and I needed him. I want to fix this so bad, he is the love of my life, and I do not want to lose this person because he really is an amazing man. We made appointment to go lay week Friday but instead she came to my house on Tuesday same week. If both people in a relationship can open thier minds to understand that there is nothing but Love in our classroom we are all living in, then healing happens and the heart is the winner for both. I dont know what to do. I went home with someone for a one night stand. I have told him that I have in a way felt the same as it seems the only time he wants to touch me is when he wants sex so I have turned myself off in a way. But she wont accept my forgiveness. She went into labor a week after. 11: Take her to the park for some fresh air If this may be what is going on, then therapy to start to feel good about yourselves, deep inside and also to learn to trust the ones you love so well that you CAN open up to who you really are is the ticket. My problems is that we grew apart, hardly had any sex, didnt talk about things more than day to day stuff and were more like room mates in the past 3 years. I have been playing professionally as a musician since I was 15 years old and have devoted SO much of my time and mental energy to improving and pushing forward as a musician. I need advice :( , please help me. We tried to make it work but it was never the same. Hello. Thats it. What Im thinking is that you dont know who you are let alone who he is and he has the same problem. about her..i need help please. I asked if she outside? I have referenced while we were dating the good times, and she has mentioned that she was forced to evolve and alludes to the fact that I am stuck in the past. Its way too confusing for him. Rebuilding love after emotional damage can be difficult, but through forgiveness and effective communication a damaged relationship can be heal. He loves me and wont say leave or hes done. 7 months into the relationship he confessed he is really into me and that he could say he love me. However I understood that she o ices with her man and his parent. Entering the 3rd month I have been a lot better and basically focusing on restoring normality and also putting my new positive life skills to work. YOU HURT ME! I can see I broke his heart, he has said he still loves but I did so much of the same things over and over again that he isnt as crazy about me as he was in the beginning. we still live under the same roof. I got pregnant and we had our son three months ago. Sitting at a table in our garden with every candle lit & blinking invitingly; scattered around our garden table; sharing a bottle of wine together & a take-out pizza whilst writing our vows & dreams to each other on a note-pad over ice-cream & hot coffee .. would have been magical. I apparently told him that I didnt trust him, and I dont feel like thats the case. I think thats what happened. I would best describe her as fun and outgoing. My husband & I worked at our own business together & I realized that he was distancing himself from our relationship more & more with each passing year. 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